<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Healosopher]]></title><description><![CDATA[Healosopher]]></description><link>https://www.healosopher.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2026 01:18:02 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.healosopher.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[What I Meant vs. What You Heard]]></title><description><![CDATA[When I think about communication and how important it is, I have to be honest, it's not something I grew up seeing in the healthiest way. And that’s not to throw my parents under the bus, because I understand now, as a grown woman, that they were doing the best they could with the emotional tools they were given. They loved in the ways they knew how. They showed up in the ways they understood. And sometimes, that meant communication looked a little different than what I needed. My dad showed...]]></description><link>https://www.healosopher.com/post/what-i-meant-vs-what-you-heard</link><guid isPermaLink="false">691ba631dd35cb65e868cab4</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2025 16:11:10 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/6d54f2_53f9b8d729834d7bb2ebc376da11b6fe~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_980,h_980,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Healosopher LLC</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[When the Mirror Makes You Mad]]></title><description><![CDATA[Let’s talk about being angry after being wronged. Because a lot of people think anger means you’re not healed, but it doesn’t. It just means you felt it. I used to think being angry made me less spiritual, like I wasn’t walking in forgiveness or faith if I admitted I was mad. I used to rush to say, “It’s straight” or “I’m over it,” when really, I was still replaying the moment in my head. I’ve had people lie on me, disrespect me, twist my words, and then play victim when they were the ones...]]></description><link>https://www.healosopher.com/post/when-the-mirror-makes-you-mad</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68fbf1d1f591df2a57b79ad8</guid><pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2025 15:54:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/6d54f2_2354816a82e241b58eb996036bb129d5~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_234,h_292,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Healosopher LLC</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[I Won't Be That Person Anymore]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lately, I’ve been realizing a lot about myself. Like how no matter how much I give, sometimes it still feels like it’s not enough for people. And that feeling eats at you after a while. You start asking, “what’s wrong with me?” when really, nothing’s wrong, you just kept giving to people who didn’t have the capacity to see you fully. I’ve had to face the truth about my own ways too though. I can be stubborn, I can shut down when I feel misunderstood, self sabotage, and I can make things...]]></description><link>https://www.healosopher.com/post/i-don-t-want-to-be-this-person-anymore</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68ed7e23fd59c61d91b5817f</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2025 15:11:07 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/6d54f2_056be4d631884730a8ea1c3b57af4375~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Healosopher LLC</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[I Thought I Was Over It]]></title><description><![CDATA[Healing be ghetto sometimes, one day I’m good, next day I’m back in my feelings like it just happened. ]]></description><link>https://www.healosopher.com/post/i-thought-i-was-over-it</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68e93900c3363e86faf83b31</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2025 15:11:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/6d54f2_513586fe555544f58068d3456e02fed9~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_735,h_743,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Healosopher LLC</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What Love Means To Me]]></title><description><![CDATA[I thought love meant holding on, but loving God and myself taught me that real love sets you free and reminds you what you deserve.  ️✨]]></description><link>https://www.healosopher.com/post/what-love-means-to-me</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68e55a60d860cb978ba85544</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2025 15:11:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/6d54f2_e104dbda41b0441a9d417e476cc23c24~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_736,h_736,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Healosopher LLC</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[When Healing Hurts: Feeling Overlooked and Forgotten]]></title><description><![CDATA[Healing has a way of pressing on the tender places we’d rather keep covered. For me, some of the deepest wounds don’t just come from...]]></description><link>https://www.healosopher.com/post/when-healing-hurts-feeling-overlooked-and-forgotten</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68d5faaf3cf1f946ecd95b4a</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2025 15:12:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/6d54f2_c546865161ae4c0aa05b50b60b815832~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Healosopher LLC</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Fear and Freedom of Vulnerability]]></title><description><![CDATA[For years I stayed silent, carrying wounds I thought were mine alone. But God reminded me He knew me before I was even born.]]></description><link>https://www.healosopher.com/post/the-fear-and-freedom-of-vulnerability</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68cb88da1d366421483ab5c8</guid><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2025 15:12:08 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/6d54f2_c0f687acaeeb49218c30f0f9b163e8c5~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_720,h_675,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Healosopher LLC</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Guarding My Heart: Because Everything I Do Flows From It]]></title><description><![CDATA[One of the greatest lessons I’ve had to learn is how to guard my heart. Not in a way that walls me off from love, friendships, or...]]></description><link>https://www.healosopher.com/post/guarding-my-heart-because-everything-i-do-flows-from-it</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68bf8f399bbd3d7fc28aa8bf</guid><pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2025 15:12:13 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/6d54f2_22cb25f0ffc746278fbbd84eef4cc6df~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Healosopher LLC</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Learning to Be Soft Again]]></title><description><![CDATA[Being soft has never been easy for me. 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